feat(rdpsnd)!: misuse-resistant format negotiation for RdpsndServerHandler

[clintcan]

Implements the misuse-resistant RdpsndServerHandler format-negotiation API discussed in #1356, in the two-method shape you proposed there.

Problem

The old start(&ClientAudioFormatPdu) -> Option<u16> made every handler compute wFormatNo itself — an index into the client's format list. Returning the wrong index (e.g. a server-list index) yields wFormatNo >= NumberOfClientFormats, which a compliant client rejects, silently dropping all audio. Every handler also re-implemented the same server∩client intersection. (Documented in #1343.)

Change

Move the negotiation into the crate and split selection from lifecycle:

fn choose_format<'a>(&mut self, common: &'a [NegotiatedFormat]) -> Option<&'a NegotiatedFormat>;
fn start(&mut self, format: &NegotiatedFormat);

• The crate computes common — the formats from get_formats() the client also advertised, in the server's preference order, each tagged with its client-list wFormatNo — and calls choose_format, then start with the chosen format.
• NegotiatedFormat has a private wformat_no and no public constructor, and choose_format returns a borrow of an element of common, so a handler cannot pick a format the client didn't accept nor emit an out-of-range wFormatNo.
• choose_format is not called when nothing is in common.
• choose_format (pure selection) and start (encoder init / producer startup) are kept distinct, per your note that start is also where producers initialize.

Resolves the footgun in #1343. Closes #1356.

Two decisions worth a look (easy to change)

1. NegotiatedFormat.format is private with a format() accessor rather than pub format — clippy::partial_pub_fields rejects mixing a pub field with the private wformat_no, and this matches the direction of fix(egfx)!: make DecodedFrame fields private with getters to enforce size invariant #1331. Happy to switch to pub + #[allow] if you prefer.
2. Format matching uses WAVEFORMATEX identity (audio_format_eq: wave-format tag, channels, sample rate, bit depth), deliberately ignoring derived fields (n_avg_bytes_per_sec, n_block_align) and the codec data blob, which a client may not echo byte-for-byte. This is looser than the type's derived ==. I went with identity matching because strict equality can miss formats a client genuinely supports (→ silent no-audio, the very bug this targets), but if you'd rather the crate use full ==, it's a one-line change.

Notes

• Breaking change (pre-v1): replaces RdpsndServerHandler::start. Known downstream implementors that will need a small update: lamco-rdp-server, hypr-rdp, cosmic-ext-rdp-server, ARISU, macrdp. (Per the rdpsnd: make RdpsndServerHandler::start misuse-resistant (hand it the common formats, let the crate compute wFormatNo) #1356 discussion, the straight replacement was preferred over an additive/deprecated path.)
• The bundled example server is updated to the new shape.

Testing

• New unit tests for negotiate_formats / audio_format_eq: client-index mapping, the PCM-only/AAC-first regression, empty overlap, and identity equality. (Enabled the lib test harness in Cargo.toml.)
• cargo clippy -p ironrdp-rdpsnd --all-targets -- -D warnings and the example (--features cliprdr,connector,rdpsnd,server) are clean; cargo test -p ironrdp-rdpsnd passes.