threading: use psutil to calculate CPU affinitity size, which adds Windows & FreeBSD support

[mr-c]

I made a recent change in cwltool and I thought to check Toil's logic as well. Presumably psutil might improve their support for query the CPU affinity set in the future, which is another reason to defer to them

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• threading: use psutil to calculate CPU affinitity size, which adds Windows & FreeBSD support

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[adamnovak]

This looks like an improvement.